Well, here we are, the much-anticipated season of summer. Time to pack up for family get-a-ways, summer camp and cook outs every week. If you live on the East Coast, West Coast or above the Mason-Dixon line, heading to the Cape or the Catskills or the beach can signal fun! But how about those southern states, oh my. Simply not as much excitement, especially in Arizona, New Mexico, Texas, Louisiana, Mississippi, or Alabama. 

For much of the south, it is known as the season of sun, sweat and humidity. Here in Texas, we have about a week of Spring then we go straight to floods in May then to “melting” not necessarily bringing out the best of mankind. While we are grateful for a warm, sunny day, watching the temps reach 100+ is a truth we often bemoan. By July many cities are reaching dangerous temperatures and so it seems is our behavior. 

Boiling Point

Sadly, our entire country seems it has already reached a “boiling point” which is much more than the number on the nightly weather. Recent studies show that a correlation between heat and violent crime is real. In fact, a study at USC found that violent crimes increased up to 5.7 % on days when temperature reached 85 or higher. Heat and anger are not good together but our boiling point is not about the weather. It is caused by anger, frustration, stress, and fear.

Too many of us are angry. Regardless the topic— politics, religion, or race, really anything where we can differ. I follow several cooking groups online and even talking about making meat loaf, you will see some people actually bullying the author of a post because the recipe differs from their own. Heaven forbid the topic is politics. It is truly unbelievable to see such anger turn to threats for having an opinion that might differ.    

Be Civil

It is so important that the adults in the room demonstrate to the youth how to be civil and have “conversations” rather than screaming matches and tearing each other apart. Far too many believe that what we call “road rage” is justified even in simple infractions such as changing lanes or honking at someone. Respect for others seems to be a thing of the past.

One of the most important rights in our country is the freedom of speech and it is a gift we all enjoy; however, using it to ridicule, frighten or bully others is not freedom. America has, for centuries, been referred to as a place to make dreams come true, the “land of opportunity”. Our country was built on the backs of people who came here to find a better life. The fabric of our society thrived on the diverse talents and cultures. Here we are in 2024 fighting against every single topic that is not seen the way we want it to be. 

It is time to stop the anger, the discrimination and teach tolerance. In our homes, our schools, our corporate world and in everyday life. Our politicians must find ways to work together for the good of all, not one group. We must allow each religion to serve without fear in our communities. People must be allowed free speech without fear of death threats. Most of all, we must find the courage to step up when we see wrong, not turning our backs or staying silent. The time to start is now. 

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